A little girl on girl...

"I've always wanted to try a girl on girl experience, but I have a BF and no one to explore with."

"Come find me, babe!"

there's no reason to keep this a secret or to feel ashamed.  with the media displaying women as sexy lustful objects, it makes sense that you're curious.  The response to this comment makes me think that there are plenty of girls out there experimenting!  Don't be afraid of what makes you happy.  I have a few Gay forum links in the column to the right.  they might help you feel more connected to others like you.

New Friends...

"Nearly everyone I know is disappointing to me. I need new friends."


She said it best.  I've lost a lot of friends over the years and it sucks.  But what sucks the most, is the fact that you really can't do much about it.  This reminded me of the the movie and the book, "Fight Club."  Fight club is great at defining the phrase, "single serving friend."  We've all had single serving friends, we meet them once and then they disappear into the infinite universe.  "Fight Club" is a great recollection of a man's struggle with the world, that book is awesome by the way...if you've watched the movie and loved it, then the book will drive you wild.  

This is so strange by the way...being behind these words, feeling like I have to give advice.  But that wasn't my intent.  I don't feel apt enough to advise anyone else...the point of posting these images, is to make our human connection obvious.  I'm kind of getting the hang of it...hah....right...?

The F word

"I can't stand myself"
"then become someone you can stand"

good advice....I wish it was that easy. But maybe the easiest way to relieve dissatisfaction with yourself is just forgiveness and not change. Or, maybe some of us, need both.  I've struggled with being able to notice my flaws without getting tripped up about them.  I feel like I let my mistakes get to me, I let them define a part of who I am.  But in actuality, my mistakes don't define me, because they cause me to change.  

Girl Talk!

"Girl, no one knows what they are doing with their life, if they say they do, they're lying to themselves. (and p.s. life is more fun unplanned!)"

It's nice to have some reassurance. Sometimes I feel like everyone around me knows exactly where they want to be and they know exactly how to get there. I have goals, sure! But do I know what I'm doing with my life? Sometimes I get a grasp, but most of the time my goals are shifting and changing. It's nice to know that I'm not the only one. Because you're not really lost if you're lost amongst a crowd.

Wasted...?

"If life is waste of time, and time is a waste of life, then let's all get wasted and have the time of our lives."

This is a lovely purple wall with a lovely typical first wall post. This may be cliche and over redundant but we should all be grabbing life by the horns...whether we're wasted or not. I don't know whether it's my laziness or not but sometimes I think that maybe we shouldn't be so dramatic as to "grab life by the horns." Instead maybe we could take it by the hand and watch the grass grow...? It could be that my motivation has been worn thin, but sometimes I just run out of oil...maybe it's because I'm not wasted enough.