The F word

"I can't stand myself"
"then become someone you can stand"

good advice....I wish it was that easy. But maybe the easiest way to relieve dissatisfaction with yourself is just forgiveness and not change. Or, maybe some of us, need both.  I've struggled with being able to notice my flaws without getting tripped up about them.  I feel like I let my mistakes get to me, I let them define a part of who I am.  But in actuality, my mistakes don't define me, because they cause me to change.